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A private orchid farm & boarding house for MEN ONLY who enjoy beauty in plants & male company.
Explore our PRIVATE Botanical Garden in our State Inspected and Registered Nursery.
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Judgement free space where MEN can feel comfortable being themselves. Kink furniture found in private rooms.
BOTANICAL GARDEN
Stroll sunrise or moonlight, and explore at your own pace. The garden always has a bloom to tease you with.
ORCHID FARM
Trays of orchids move through gracefully tended by careful hands, warm sun kisses, and the right conditions — it’s how we do things here.
SHIMMERING NIGHTS
Shimmering lights turn every step into a rainbow runway — because subtlety is overrated.
POOL
Hot water, no judgment, and your skimpiest swimsuit is basically the dress code.
LUXURY
Because silk sheets and rainbow sunsets are the bare minimum… and so are the guys.
BAMBOO FOREST
Woohoo for bamboo — tall, lush, and better at privacy than your nosy neighbor.
CABANA
Grill, Ice, and Water — all the essentials for whatever’s about to happen.
LOUNGE
A living room where guys somehow end up in a circle or line, having fun.
FITNESS
Lifting weights is fine, but I can think of another way to get in cardio.
HARD WOOD PATIO
You’ll forget going inside… there’s unexpected stuff here too.
NO GATE CODE – NO ENTRY
Are Trans & CD’s allowed?
As long as your license says “Male” you are fully allowed to express yourself in any way in my private home.
Do you have any Rules?
As it’s a private home not open to the public there aren’t many rules. However, I do not allow any type of intoxication. It’s never fun to deal with intoxicated people.
For this reason I ask that you do not bring large amounts of alcohol to share with others. There are many fun things to do here besides be intoxicated!
About the Owner
I’ve been putting a lot of love into my property since I purchased it and named it XCALACOCO. In 2017, It won a nationwide Electronic Home of the Year contest at CE PRO in San Diego, CA. It has a lush tropical rainforest feel with so many things to discover in the flora amongst the Bamboo, which is just such a great atmosphere, almost immediately relaxing. In 2022, I separated from my husband after 17 years. The definition of “Family” for LGBTQ is sometimes very unique. I have been homeless, estranged from my biological family, and crave new interactions. Having all this space and the empty house, I’ve recently decided to share my home with like-minded people to meet others to expand my family. I love technology, interior design, and making things visually appealing. I do not enjoy drinking or partying, but I love playing older video games such as Smash Bros. If you invite me to play Monopoly, you will unleash a monster, so be warned. I also have quite an appetite for the world of GAY KINK. I look forward to meeting new friends!
Clayton V.
Update: In 2024 I had a life changing near death experience. Since then in search of less is more I stumbled upon Tantra spirituality. I was really moved by Purusha Larkin who created a Commune in a beach town near San Diego. Purusha was a Tantric Guru, made one of the first gay films ever produced as well as published a book “The Divine Androgyne”. I strive to learn as much as I can from Purusha and anyone connected to the world of Tantra. I am especially fond of the ability to meditate and open one self wider and deeper than ever. His book literally has a circle of men fisting each other on the cover!
I am continuing the legacy with Xcalacoco forever thru a Trust I have created. Learn more at: “tantricsanctuary.com”
Clayton V.
This property is Owner Occupied and for private use only.
Certain areas of the property and the towel dispenser require a ROOM KEY. You are welcome to make friends and use those areas as a guest of someone staying at the boarding house.
Activities discussed, arranged, or promoted within the Private Group Chat are initiated and organized solely by individual occupants or visitors. The private Telegram channel is provided strictly as a courtesy communication tool for individuals who have previously visited the property, and its use is entirely voluntary.
All occupants and visitors must comply with all applicable local ordinances, including those governing parking and noise. The property owner reserves the right to immediately shut down any activity on the premises that conflicts with these ordinances or otherwise violates the law.